Comments on: I Feel Like I’ve Been Kicked In The Stomach http://deansaliba.com/2009/06/08/i-feel-like-ive-been-kicked-in-the-stomach/ As Oscar Wilde Once Said ..... Oil Your Bumhole! Thu, 09 Feb 2012 07:18:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Dean Saliba http://deansaliba.com/2009/06/08/i-feel-like-ive-been-kicked-in-the-stomach/comment-page-1/#comment-40942 Dean Saliba Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:06:53 +0000 http://deansaliba.com/?p=1426#comment-40942 My friend is not talking to me at the moment as we had a bit of a spat and I acted like a twat and basically told her to fuck off. We haven't spoken for about a month, I've tried to apologise but her replies were normally "leave me alone" or silence. I've sent her a couple of texts over the past week but I'm reluctant to send anymore as I think no replying means "leave me alone". Doesn't it? Thanks for the replies by the way, very helpful. :) My friend is not talking to me at the moment as we had a bit of a spat and I acted like a twat and basically told her to fuck off. We haven’t spoken for about a month, I’ve tried to apologise but her replies were normally “leave me alone” or silence.

I’ve sent her a couple of texts over the past week but I’m reluctant to send anymore as I think no replying means “leave me alone”. Doesn’t it?

Thanks for the replies by the way, very helpful. :)

]]> By: ebele http://deansaliba.com/2009/06/08/i-feel-like-ive-been-kicked-in-the-stomach/comment-page-1/#comment-40414 ebele Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:53:45 +0000 http://deansaliba.com/?p=1426#comment-40414 It's quite possible to hide things from family, to pretend as if everything's ok (even in the most attentive of families). Trust me. I know. Get in touch with your friend (as I'm sure you will) to find out how she's doing, so she knows there's someone who cares and is looking out for her. Don't mention what you're worried she might do, just be a friend. In midst of all that, try and take care of yourself too. That's important. It’s quite possible to hide things from family, to pretend as if everything’s ok (even in the most attentive of families). Trust me. I know.

Get in touch with your friend (as I’m sure you will) to find out how she’s doing, so she knows there’s someone who cares and is looking out for her. Don’t mention what you’re worried she might do, just be a friend.

In midst of all that, try and take care of yourself too. That’s important.

]]> By: Dean Saliba http://deansaliba.com/2009/06/08/i-feel-like-ive-been-kicked-in-the-stomach/comment-page-1/#comment-40316 Dean Saliba Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:38:35 +0000 http://deansaliba.com/?p=1426#comment-40316 Hi Ebele, When I say "You stupid fucking woman" I didn't mean it literary (sp?). It was just a gut saying that I kept saying.<br> <br> I know she is not stupid, she was acing it at university. According to her family she was showing no signs of this so either she hid it very well or her family were not paying enough attention to spot the signs. I am quite worried though as someone who I was becoming good friends with (we fell out) is suffering from depression (like me) and I'm now really worried she is going to do to something similar. Thanks for dorpping by. :) Hi Ebele,

When I say “You stupid fucking woman” I didn’t mean it literary (sp?). It was just a gut saying that I kept saying.

I know she is not stupid, she was acing it at university. According to her family she was showing no signs of this so either she hid it very well or her family were not paying enough attention to spot the signs.

I am quite worried though as someone who I was becoming good friends with (we fell out) is suffering from depression (like me) and I’m now really worried she is going to do to something similar.

Thanks for dorpping by. :)

]]> By: ebele http://deansaliba.com/2009/06/08/i-feel-like-ive-been-kicked-in-the-stomach/comment-page-1/#comment-40245 ebele Wed, 10 Jun 2009 11:29:53 +0000 http://deansaliba.com/?p=1426#comment-40245 Dean,<BR> <BR> I can't begin to imagine how you must have felt reading about your friend's suicide. I'm really sorry you had to find out that way (and sorry for her that she did it at all. She must have been in a hugely desperate, lonely place).<BR> <BR> I don't think she was stupid, selfish or cowardly (though you're perfectly entitiled to be that pissed off with her). Maybe she just wanted the pain to stop.<BR> <BR> take care... Dean,

I can’t begin to imagine how you must have felt reading about your friend’s suicide. I’m really sorry you had to find out that way (and sorry for her that she did it at all. She must have been in a hugely desperate, lonely place).

I don’t think she was stupid, selfish or cowardly (though you’re perfectly entitiled to be that pissed off with her). Maybe she just wanted the pain to stop.

take care…

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